the reason

When something bad happens, people say that there is a reason why that happened, but can u really tell what was that reason, I mean If you go back and analyze some of the bad things that happened, do you really know now what was the reason for that bad thing to happen.. I can´t ... so I guess THE REASON is another way for people to say YOU WILL GET OVER THIS. So there is really no reason for bad things to happen to you. Is just the way life is. Life is not wise is just like a human being makes looots of mistakes.